I told you I'm not a fan of "you should accept things as they are". The more you say it the more it'll annoy me, so I suggest you refrain entirely.

[ time to just pour himself some whiskey as well and just drink. ]

There are some things that you can't and should not move past. Let's hear it. How much have you lost? You said you had to make similar choices before.

I'm quite curious about the scale of such a choice.